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Finding Clarity: My Journey to Ending a Marriage.
separated, divorcing, how I knew it was time to divorce Karen Omand, B.A Soc, B.A Than, CT separated, divorcing, how I knew it was time to divorce Karen Omand, B.A Soc, B.A Than, CT

Finding Clarity: My Journey to Ending a Marriage.

Choosing to end a marriage is never an easy decision; it often lingers beneath the surface for years before becoming impossible to ignore. For many, the path toward divorce is a subtle process of emotional detachment. It’s like watching a thread slowly unwind from a spool—quiet and steady. Over time, you find yourself drifting apart, and the bond that once held you together begins to fray. The shared dreams and hopes that once united you gradually fade into distant memories.

As you navigate the complexities of marriage, a growing unease often starts to creep in—a whisper that something fundamental has shifted. You may start to question whether the relationship is still fulfilling, or if you’re staying out of obligation, fear, or uncertainty. It’s important to recognize that these feelings are valid and often signal deeper issues that need addressing. Divorce is not something we plan for when we marry, but sometimes it becomes necessary for our well-being, especially if there are forms of abuse, neglect, or a deep disconnection that have taken root in the relationship.

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WHAT HAPPENS TO YOUR HOME IN A DIVORCE?
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WHAT HAPPENS TO YOUR HOME IN A DIVORCE?

The first step in addressing the future of your home in a divorce is to determine the ownership. In Ontario, the matrimonial home is treated uniquely compared to other assets. Regardless of which spouse holds the title, both parties have an equal right to stay in the house until a separation agreement or court order states otherwise. This rule ensures that neither spouse can sell or mortgage the home without the other's consent.

‍STEP 2: VALUING THE HOME

The next step involves valuing the home to determine its worth. This valuation is typically conducted by a professional appraiser who will consider factors such as the current real estate market, the condition of the property, and comparable home sales in the area.

Accurate valuation is critical, as it impacts the division of assets and helps determine whether one spouse can afford to keep the home or if selling is the best option.

STEP 3: DECIDING ON THE FUTURE OF THE HOME

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The Significance of Taking your Wedding Ring Off
Divorce, divorcerecovery, divorcing, divorce grief Karen Omand, B.A Soc, B.A Than, CT Divorce, divorcerecovery, divorcing, divorce grief Karen Omand, B.A Soc, B.A Than, CT

The Significance of Taking your Wedding Ring Off

We know it takes an average of 5 years of marital discord and conflict for a person to decide to leave the marriage. Many of those individuals are women, and the process of detaching and growing apart from their spouse was happening during the marriage itself. This means that the identity associated with the ring began to lose its value, even sentimentally. When you repeatedly attempt to salvage a marriage, and it withers away over time, the rings and all those promises made years ago no longer hold the same significance.

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