The Warnings I Ignored: My Grandmothers Told Me Not to Marry Him

I still remember the moment both of my grandmothers warned me about my fiancé. One grandmother told me, “Karen, this is not a good idea.” The other grandmother, through my mother, expressed that she was not happy and did not approve of the engagement. They weren't yelling or making a scene, but both knew something was off. Deep down, they sensed that he wasn’t the right one for me. We had broken up twice before, so I knew there were issues, but I convinced myself they were wrong.

I was very close to my grandmothers and trusted their wisdom. But when it came to my relationship, I thought I knew better, and I was incredibly naïve. Maybe it was my stubbornness, or maybe he did a good job pretending. Either way, I ignored the small voice inside me whispering that something wasn’t right.