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Why “Sitting Still” Is the Smartest First Step in Divorce
As a mother of two young adults, I often find myself deeply contemplating the choices that led me to endure my toxic marriage for almost two decades. Having grown up in a high-conflict divorced family, I convinced myself that I could manage the complexities of staying in a deeply challenging relationship. I was determined not to repeat the past. I feared my children might experience the same chaos I lived through, and because of that fear, I poured endless energy into “making it work.”
How to Divide Assets in Divorce Without Losing What Matters Most
Dividing assets during divorce is never just about money or spreadsheets. It’s about grief, fairness, survival, and identity.
You're not just splitting up possessions. You're unraveling a life that once felt whole. That includes memories, traditions, routines, and comfort. Often, you're trying to stay calm and fair while navigating one of the most emotionally intense experiences of your life.
Over the years, we’ve worked with many people who reached this point overwhelmed and unsure where to begin. Without a framework, it’s easy to fall into arguments, feel paralyzed, or walk away with regrets.
That’s why we teach a simple but powerful strategy to help you approach this step with more clarity and less chaos.