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Hardship or Manipulation? The Child Support Loophole No One Talks About
When my ex claimed “financial hardship” to reduce or not pay his child support payments, I was shocked, but not entirely surprised. For years, he earned a six-figure income in retail. Then, during our separation, his story changed. He said he could no longer afford to contribute.
He cited his heart attack, valid for a bit, but years later. He mentioned having to repay a loan. He said he was grieving the loss of his mother. And while I don't doubt some of that was true, I also heard, through others, that he had recently traveled to Europe, was regularly playing golf, bought 2 e-bikes, and brought home a large dog with significant upkeep costs.
How to Divide Assets in Divorce Without Losing What Matters Most
Dividing assets during divorce is never just about money or spreadsheets. It’s about grief, fairness, survival, and identity.
You're not just splitting up possessions. You're unraveling a life that once felt whole. That includes memories, traditions, routines, and comfort. Often, you're trying to stay calm and fair while navigating one of the most emotionally intense experiences of your life.
Over the years, we’ve worked with many people who reached this point overwhelmed and unsure where to begin. Without a framework, it’s easy to fall into arguments, feel paralyzed, or walk away with regrets.
That’s why we teach a simple but powerful strategy to help you approach this step with more clarity and less chaos.